Sunday, July 11, 2010
Final Random Thoughts About Kenya
Saturday, July 10, 2010
Back in the US
Last Day in Kenya and Goodbyes in Egypt
Another Day At the School
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As we did
Friday, July 9, 2010
Meru and Environs
Silverbeck and our Drive to Meru
Kaimbiu
We went to Kaimbiu yesterday, another Nairobi slum. Although the living conditions there appeared to be better than those in Kibera, there were no paved roads for the most part in Kaimbiu, water spewed out from broken pipes in some areas turning the roads into small lakes, parts of the roads were full of smoking garbage with goats foraging in it for food, and all of the tiny businesses and homes were made of either sheet metal or dried dung mixed with straw. (Note: One of the businesses we saw was named the Texas Salon! A friend took a picture of it so I hope to post it eventually.)
We spent most of the day at a community center in Kaimbiu located next door to the chief's office. The medical team worked inside the unlit center. Two other volunteers and I worked outside in a dusty parking lot. We were in charge of activities for kids and we were totally unprepared for the number of kids who showed up. So far, working with those kids has been the most emotionally gut-wrenching experience I have had in Kenya. I fought back tears most of the day and really wanted the opportunity to just be somewhere by myself to sob for a little while. The reason why it was so difficult was that all of the kids, ranging in age from about 3 to about 11 or 12, appeared to have nothing in the way of toys based on their enthusiastic responses to what we gave them, which included just about everything we had. We started out by passing out all of the 75 animal puppet/dolls we had brought with us and then we gave those who did not receive a doll, pieces of yellow and red yarn. The kids were happy with anything and everything. No complaining or whining as would probably have happened in the US. Eventually, one us got a ride to an office and brought back a box of construction paper and crayons that had been shipped by AFK. So, we passed out the construction paper with two crayons per child. Once we had passed out all of the paper, we passed out the remaining crayons and then we let kids take the remaining crayon boxes. I put stickers on kids' heads and then on their hands and arms, nearly depleting my supply, and we fed kids pieces of our energy bars and cut up a chocolate bar and fed small pieces of the bar to as many children as possible.
Once we had given away every possible item we could give away, we began taking the kids' photos. That was a lot of fun. First we took group photos, but then some of the children wanted individual photos. At first, the individual photos were serious, but then eventually some of the children began making funny faces or posing. Every time we took a photo they would all crowd around us and take turns looking at it. I think that for most of them it was the first time they had ever seen their own image.
The medical team was busy all day seeing the mostly mothers and children, who lined up outside the Center waiting their turn. They ended up sending two young children, including an infant, to the hospital because they had very high temperatures and needed more medical care than the team could provide. Also, they said that every child they saw had head lice, ringworm, respiratory problems, rhinitis, and that every child was dehydrated. Those problems seem to be facts of life for the children of the Nairobi slums.
After the medical team had completed its work, we drove about 20 minutes to a church center where Jane Njoroge, the head of the Voluntary Counselors of Kenya (VCK), www.vocoke.com, and some of her volunteers, served us a delicious lunch of home-cooked Kenyan food. (AFK provides VCK with support and assistance. VCK community volunteers provide HIV/AIDs counseling, awareness services, like educating women and children about their legal rights, help take care of orphans and widows affected by AIDS, create income-generating projects, and run a home-based reading program, among other things. VCK works throughout Kenya with members of any tribe.)
Jane introduced us to some of the orphans being supported through AFK's Orphan Support program, including one of the two boys and the girl that Beth and I have been sponsoring for several years. (The Chebi children had driven 8 hours with their uncle to meet us. Sadly, one of the boys was not able to travel because he had hurt his arm and had something else wrong; I was never clear exactly what the other problem was.)
After the formal part of the program was over, Beth and I went outside with the Chebis and an interpreter, to talk and to give each child some gifts we had brought for them from the US --a bracelet and small mirror for the girl, a soccer ball and pump, Texas Longhorn tee-shirts, Yankee baseball caps for the boys and flashlights with extra batteries for all. They were very, very shy, but seemed pleased with their gifts. Will try to post photos of the kids with Beth and me later.
On our way to and from Kaimbiu, we drove through downtown Nairobi for the first time. It was a mass of people and busses. Some of the busses were headed out to rural communities in Kenya and their roofs were piled high with luggage, boxes, crates, bags of maize and tires. Although there were some large office buildings and government buildings downtown, everything we saw looked neglected and rundown, which is the way it seems to be throughout Kenya, courtesy of a neglectful government. Not sure yet where we are headed tomorrow. Stay tuned.
Sightseeing
Yesterday was a day of rest for us. We drove to the National Wildlife Preserve, which is not far from downtown Nairobi. When we got there, we popped up the roof on our van so we could ride standing up and looking out for a better view of the animals we would see. We ended up seeing water buffalo, zebras, giraffes, mongoose, rhinos, impala and a crown tufted crane. Very cool!! We would love to have seen a lion and some elephants and monkeys, but none were in sight. Maybe later on during this trip.
Next, we drove to Karen, a wealthy community outside of Nairobi, to have lunch at the Karen Blixen Coffee Shoppe, which is actually a lovely old home with a beautiful outdoor area and excellent food -- probably the best food we have eaten since we arrived in Kenya. Our group ate a variety of curries and other Indian dishes on a covered veranda and then went shopping in an excellent gift shop on the premises. Then we headed off to Bomas of Kenya, a company that was started by the Government of Kenya in 1971 to preserve and promote the diverse cultural values of the country's various ethnic groups of Kenya. (The country is home to 42 different tribes, each with its own vernacular and culture.).
At Bomas, dancers and singers dressed in different colorful costumes performed for us. Beth and I enjoyed them, although perhaps the best performance of all was provided by the school girls and boys dressed in their red and blue school uniforms seated next to us. During the intermission, about 20 of them stood up and began dancing in unison to music that was playing over a loudspeaker. Not only were they fun to watch, but their enthusiasm was infectious.
Tomorrow, we head to a new slum west of Nairobi. While we are there, Beth and I will meet the orphans we adopted a couple years ago -- 2 boys (both of whom are HIV positive) and a girl. AFK has arranged to have them driven into Nairobi to meet us. If you are interested in helping to support one of Kenya's many orphans left parentless because their parents died of AIDs, go to www.afk.org to learn more about the organization's Orphan Support Program. The program is an easy way to make a profound difference in the life of a desperately-needy child via a small monthly debit from your bank account This is it for now. More later.
Day Two in Kibera
We spent another day in Kibera yesterday. As I indicated in my last post, words and photos are inadequate to describe the conditions there, the filth, and the grinding poverty people live in on a daily basis with no hope of change given that the government refuses to acknowledge that the place even exists and does not provide the residents of the slum with water or sanitation services, much less schools. I cannot imagine the hopelessness that people of Kibera live with day in and day out.
One ray of hope of course is young (25 years old) Kennedy Odede's Hope to Shine nonprofit. Through that organization, Kennedy began the Kibera School for girls a year ago. More recently, Hope to Shine completed a green bathroom outside the school that is used by the students and teachers at the school and will be available to residents of Kibera for a very small fee. (Waste products from the bathroom are composted and used to fertilize the vegetable garden behind the Kibera School. The vegetables from the garden help to provide students at the school with a healthy diet during the school day.) Kennedy has plans to build similar bathroom facilities throughout Kibera and the income they generate will help support the school and his other projects, which include expanding the school, running a medical clinic, and constructing a community center. In August, the clinic should be up and running (All of the supplies and equipment it needs are in a storeroom at the school ready to be used. AFK got most if not all of those items donated and shipped to Kenya.) and Kennedy just completed assembling the parcels of land he needs to build the community center. Meanwhile, I am sure that he has many, many more projects and ideas to improve the lives of the people of Kibera percolating in his head and I have no doubt that he will bring them all to fruition given his intelligence, charisma and drive, not to mention his success at fundraising.
We began our 2nd day at the school with an assembly. The students' parents or another caregiver, plus some of their young siblings, were all crammed onto wooden benches in a room and all of the AFK volunteers crammed into the room too. Soon, the students walked into the room one by one and singing in unison. Then, also in unison, they recited words about how each of them was a unique person and that they had the power to create their own lives using education as the key. I doubt that there was a dry eye in the house. The school is helping give the girls the self confidence, self esteem, self awareness and power they will need to improve their lives and focus on their futures.
Beth spent her second day in Kibera helping conduct physical exams. She and the rest of the medical team examined all of the students, their parents and I think the teachers too. Amazingly, the team did not see a lot of serious medical problems, although nearly everyone was dehydrated and some of the people they examined had infections of one sort of another. Beth said that probably the saddest situation of the day was when they had to tell a woman, who already had three children, that she was pregnant with twins. Taking care of one infant would be a challenge in Kibera, much less two at a time. Although many mothers-to-be in the US would great the news with joy, this mother's reaction was very understandable given her circumstances.
The library team spent the entire day continuing to log the hundreds of books that will soon line the many bookcases in the school's small library. The volunteer who heads up the library team is going to create an electronic database for the library once she returns to the US.
I spent the day with another volunteer helping students create their own books about themselves using construction paper and crayons. Each of the girls drew pictures of themselves and wrote about themselves in their books. All of the girls wrote in English -- pretty impressive given that a year ago they did not know a word of the language. After everyone finished their books, each girl was invited to stand up and read it to the rest of the class. Very sweet. I found a line in one girl's book especially poignant. She wrote that she loved her teacher because the teacher was clean. I imagine that her teacher is one of the only clean people she knows. I also helped in the library.
Last night most of the volunteers went to a restaurant called Carnivore. As you probably guessed, the theme of the place is meat -- endless amounts of it. The waiters brought all kinds of meat (beef, lamb, crocodile, boar, etc.) on big skewers or platters to our table and then each of us indicated whether or not we wanted any of what was being served. They also brought around a whole turkey and a chicken on big skewers. The waiters continued to serve rounds of meat and poultry until we put a little card up on the table indicating that we'd had enough. The food was not wonderful and based on all of the white faces at the tables, Carnivore appeared to be a tourist place, but our group had a lot of fun there, so it was a great choice for the evening.
Tomorrow we have the day off. We are going to visit a wild animal preserve so next time I blog I hope to be able to report that I saw lots of zebra, giraffe, rhinos, lions and elephants. Stay tuned.
Kibera
Yesterday, we spent the day in the poorest place I have ever been -- Kibera, the largest slum in Africa. Neither words nor photos can describe the situation there, but let me try: narrow, uneven lanes made of dirt and trash, tiny shops and homes built of corrugated metal and cardboard, loud music pouring from ramshackle bars, people everywhere, smells, no sewers, adorable children in torn dirty clothes with their noses running, unsupervised toddlers playing in filthy water because they have no toys, feral dogs everywhere. Walking through Kibera is like what I imagine descending into Dante's inferno would be like.
We were escorted into and out of Kibera under the protection of the gang leader for the slum and one his gang members. Like Secret Service men in the US, they are constantly alert for possible problems, and yesterday, they put themselves between Beth and another AFK volunteer when one of the feral dogs began acting aggressively. I am not clear as to the exact role of the gang in Kibera, but I understand that among other things, its members try to counteract the power of the chief of the slum, who is a bad person and not interested in helping its residents.
We were in Kibera to work at the Kibera School for Girls, a project begun by a small nonprofit called Hope to Shine, www.hopetoshine.org, that was established by Kennedy Odede, who moved to Kibera on his own at the age of 11 and managed to not only live but to thrive in that he began some small businesses in the slum, learned how to use a computer and figured out how to get on the Internet, which ultimately led him to AFK. Currently, he is a student at CT Wesleyan University and returns to Kibera every Summer, which is where he will go back to once he graduates so he can continue helping his people. He and the other US students and recent college grads who are working with them have a steep road ahead given the overwhelming poverty and problems in Kibera, but their efforts have already won Shining Hope a Dell Challenge Grant, a Paul Newman Foundation Grant, and they are in the running for a significant grant from VHI, so they have a good start on raising much of the money they will need to achieve their short and long term visions.
AFK was instrumental in helping get the Kibera School for Girls off the ground offering both money and volunteer support and it will continue to do so for at least the immediate future. For example, while we were in Kibera yesterday, a team of volunteers catalogued hundreds of donated books from the US and will put the books on the now empty bookshelves in the school library. Also, the eye doctor on the medical team examined the eyes of all of the girls who attend the school; Beth and a nurse began conducting physical exams of the girls, nearly all of whom had problems -- stomach problems due to rotten teeth, upper respiratory infections, even a case of full-blown Aids; and the nurse practitioner talked to a group of men and women from Kibera about sexual health.
I was part of a team of three that worked with the children in each of the school's three classrooms teaching them how to make puppets and tell stories with their puppets. The youngest kids -- 5 and 6 -- made sticks using foam animal shapes and popsicle sticks, but the older children -- 7 and 8 and 9 -- decorated more traditional people and animal puppets made of wood with strings to move their arms, legs and heads. They really had a great time and when they found out that the puppets were theirs to keep and take home, the joy on their faces was indescribable because they have probably never owed a toy. One little girl who had decorated a people puppet kept kissing it, fussing lovingly with its red yarn hair and holding the doll out to look at, amazed that it was hers. Heart-warming to say the least.